{"id":970,"date":"2023-04-05T13:51:26","date_gmt":"2023-04-05T13:51:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.clmb.al\/?p=970"},"modified":"2023-04-05T13:51:26","modified_gmt":"2023-04-05T13:51:26","slug":"dhuna-por-cfare-e-shtyn-nje-individ-qe-te-ushtroje-dhune","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test.futureblock.al\/clmb\/dhuna-por-cfare-e-shtyn-nje-individ-qe-te-ushtroje-dhune\/","title":{"rendered":"Dhuna-Por \u00e7far\u00eb e shtyn nj\u00eb individ q\u00eb t\u00eb ushtroj\u00eb dhun\u00eb ?!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Shpesh njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ushtrojn\u00eb dhun\u00eb kan\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb kontrollin e ndjenjave t\u00eb tyre. Ata mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb l\u00ebnduar nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Disa mendojn\u00eb se t’i b\u00ebsh njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb frik\u00ebsohen n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet dhun\u00ebs ose k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimeve p\u00ebr dhun\u00eb, do t’i zgjidhnin problemet e tyre ose do t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb respekt.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\"\u2705\"<\/span>Por \u00e7far\u00eb e shkakton dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb godas\u00eb, shkelmoj\u00eb, ose q\u00eblloj\u00eb me arm\u00eb dikujt tjet\u00ebr apo edhe ndaj vetes?<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk ka nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje. Por njer\u00ebzit shpesh kryejn\u00eb dhun\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb nj\u00eb ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb arsyeve.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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1.Disa njer\u00ebz p\u00ebrdorin dhun\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00e7liruar ndjenjat e zem\u00ebrimit ose zhg\u00ebnjimit. Ata mendojn\u00eb se nuk ka p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr problemet e tyre dhe i drejtohen dhun\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur emocionet e tyre t\u00eb dala jasht\u00eb kontrollit.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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2. Dhuna p\u00ebrdoret si nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontrolluar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt ose p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ata duan.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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3. Dhuna p\u00ebrdoret p\u00ebr t’u hakmarr\u00eb ndaj atyre q\u00eb i kan\u00eb l\u00ebnduar ose dikujt p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin kujdesen.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Dhuna \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sjellje e m\u00ebsuar. Si t\u00eb gjitha sjelljet e m\u00ebsuara, ajo mund t\u00eb ndryshohet. Megjithat\u00eb, kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb. Duke qen\u00eb se nuk ka asnj\u00eb shkak t\u00eb vet\u00ebm t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs, nuk ka nj\u00eb zgjidhje t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\"\u2705\"<\/span>Disa shenja t\u00eb cilat tregojn\u00eb p\u00ebr dhun\u00eb mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb faktor\u00eb historik\u00eb ose statik\u00eb (t\u00eb pandryshuesh\u00ebm) si p.sh:<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Nj\u00eb histori sjelljeje e dhunshme ose agresive<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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T\u00eb q\u00ebnit viktim\u00eb e bullizmit<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Abuzimi ose neglizhenca n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e hershme<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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T\u00eb q\u00ebnit d\u00ebshmitar i dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Nj\u00eb histori e mizoris\u00eb\/d\u00ebmtimit ndaj kafsh\u00ebve<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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T\u00eb q\u00ebnit i pashpirt ose i mungon empatia p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\"\u2705\"<\/span>Shenja t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs t\u00eb pranishme dhe mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkall\u00ebzohen ose t\u00eb kontribuojn\u00eb n\u00eb rrezikun e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb nj\u00eb ngjarje ose aktivitet t\u00eb caktuar:<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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P\u00ebrdorimi i drog\u00ebs ose alkoolit<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Probleme me kontrollin e ndjenjave si zem\u00ebrimi<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Ndjenja rregullisht refuzimi ose i vet\u00ebm<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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\"\u2705\"<\/span>Disa shenja t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs s\u00eb mundshme mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb shenja t\u00eb reja ose aktive. Ato mund t\u00eb duken si:<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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P\u00ebrleshje t\u00eb shpeshta fizike<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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R\u00ebnie e performanc\u00ebs n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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K\u00ebrcenime ose plane p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/div>\n
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Shpesh njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ushtrojn\u00eb dhun\u00eb kan\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb kontrollin e ndjenjave t\u00eb tyre. Ata mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb l\u00ebnduar nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Disa mendojn\u00eb se t’i b\u00ebsh njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb frik\u00ebsohen n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet dhun\u00ebs ose k\u00ebrc\u00ebnimeve p\u00ebr dhun\u00eb, do t’i zgjidhnin problemet e tyre ose do t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb respekt. Por \u00e7far\u00eb e shkakton dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb godas\u00eb, shkelmoj\u00eb, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-970","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-aktivitete","category-materiale-edukuese"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/test.futureblock.al\/clmb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/970","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/test.futureblock.al\/clmb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/test.futureblock.al\/clmb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test.futureblock.al\/clmb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test.futureblock.al\/clmb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=970"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/test.futureblock.al\/clmb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/970\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/test.futureblock.al\/clmb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=970"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test.futureblock.al\/clmb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=970"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test.futureblock.al\/clmb\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=970"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}